In grade school, I came to know that a family consists of a father, a mother, a brother, a sister, and baby. We all did, right? And I grew up not just with a brother but 4 brothers! Not just a sister but 3 sisters! I had all sorts of fights with my siblings when we were younger but everytime, everything is patched up. At the end of the day we’re still family.
Then I had my own. And hell began.
To make a long story short, I realized that family is not just being together under one roof. When I felt that the “captain is sinking the boat” I had to make a drastic decision. I have to save my soul and my sons.
Old people always say “wag kayo maghiwalay for the sake of the children,” Believe me, it’s not true. If you love your children, spare them from hell. Take it from me. Been there. Done that.
So what I’m trying to say is, family is not about “wholeness” or “togetherness”. It is about love, respect and existing for one another.
Deine Kraft, sind Deine Kinder, Deine Zukunft, liegt nur an Deiner Hand. Wir sind für unsere Taten selbst Verantwortlich. Es ist immer leicht die Schuld an anderer zu Schieben. Aber zum Schluss, müssen wir alleine durch.
Ich Danke Dir für Du weiss schon was.
By: SH on March 20, 2009
at 7:47 am